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Surviving our young children’s meltdown while sipping a cup of tea! Part 2/3


Are you ready for when your kiddo loses it? Little ones haven’t quite mastered the art of controlling their emotions yet, so when they’re overflowing with feelings, they unleash their frustrations in the form of tantrums. It’s not their fault, though! Their brains are still growing, and their frontal lobe hasn’t fully developed.


So, let’s grab a cup of tea and chat about how you can handle these crazy moments without losing your cool.


It’s totally natural to feel upset when your child is upset, but staying chill sets a good example for them.


Here are a few tips to keep your cool and keep things in perspective during tantrum times:

  1. Have a game plan for dealing with tantrums, especially when you’re out in public. It can be a lifesaver!

  2. Understand that you can’t control your child’s emotions or behavior directly. Your job is to keep them safe and gently guide their behavior to prevent future meltdowns.

  3. Remember, change takes time. Tantrums won’t magically disappear overnight. Your little one is still learning how to regulate their emotions, and that’s a lifelong process.

  4. Don’t think your child is intentionally trying to drive you crazy. They simply haven’t learned the skills to handle certain situations yet.

  5. Keep your sense of humor intact, but don’t laugh at the tantrum. That might encourage them or make them even more upset.

  6. Forget about the judgmental glances from others. They either don’t have kids or have forgotten what it’s like to deal with tiny tornadoes.

  7. Be kind to yourself when things don’t go as planned, and tantrums happen. Parenting is a tough job, and you’re doing your best.

Remember, you can’t control everything, and tantrums might happen no matter how hard you try. But being prepared can make a big difference.


And hey, don’t forget that Arizen Academy is right around the corner, ready to help you and your little one thrive on this wild journey!

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